Tweak #4

"I stole from my grandparents. I stole from my aunts, uncle, and friends. I stole and justified it and stole more. I feel sick being on the other side of it. I feel unsafe, violated, and out of control." This quote struck me. This shows just how strong an addiction can be. He was now stealing from the people he loved the most in order to get money to support his drug usage. This is truly really sad. The fact that he was convincing himself it wasn't bad of him to do makes it even worse. Stealing is not okay not matter what and there is no justification for it. He was well aware of all he was losing yet, his addiction to meth was too strong to stop. When he was younger he always thought him doing drugs was harmless. He could stop when he wanted and control his usage without getting addicted. This book tells about his violent relapse in which he was no longer able to stop. Everyone sober around him wanted him to stop but he was incapable. He was in too deep with his addiction and even involved in selling. These drugs got him involved with the wrong people  and doing regrettable things that he would not do sober. His friends were ripping people off when selling drugs and coating them with things to make them more addicted. To them it became all about the money and there was no trusting anybody. Nic was losing all his morals. He was not only stealing, but he was having promiscuous sex and bringing others around him down with him. His father knew his life had been changed and harmed when his parents got divorced, but he hoped and prayed that he could help his son. His son's reality was a nightmare. Nic thought he was invincible before his relapse. He would never become one of the addicts and he would never get caught doing drugs. He again was wrong about himself. 

Nic is very similar to young drug users around here. Around here in the north shore, people think they are invincible. There are people who do a ton of drugs and think that they will just be able to quit when they want and they are not ones to become addicts. Many think they will never be caught yet, most of them do get caught. Drugs are dangerous and it truly feels like that is down played by teens. Once one gets addicted it is extremely hard to break it just as Nic is experiencing. 

Tweak #4

"I stole from my grandparents. I stole from my aunts, uncle, and friends. I stole and justified it and stole more. I feel sick being on the other side of it. I feel unsafe, violated, and out of control." This quote struck me. This shows just how strong an addiction can be. He was now stealing from the people he loved the most in order to get money to support his drug usage. This is truly really sad. The fact that he was convincing himself it wasn't bad of him to do makes it even worse. Stealing is not okay not matter what and there is no justification for it. He was well aware of all he was losing yet, his addiction to meth was too strong to stop. When he was younger he always thought him doing drugs was harmless. He could stop when he wanted and control his usage without getting addicted. This book tells about his violent relapse in which he was no longer able to stop. Everyone sober around him wanted him to stop but he was incapable. He was in too deep with his addiction and even involved in selling. These drugs got him involved with the wrong people  and doing regrettable things that he would not do sober. His friends were ripping people off when selling drugs and coating them with things to make them more addicted. To them it became all about the money and there was no trusting anybody. Nic was losing all his morals. He was not only stealing, but he was having promiscuous sex and bringing others around him down with him. His father knew his life had been changed and harmed when his parents got divorced, but he hoped and prayed that he could help his son. His son's reality was a nightmare. Nic thought he was invincible before his relapse. He would never become one of the addicts and he would never get caught doing drugs. He again was wrong about himself. 

Nic is very similar to young drug users around here. Around here in the north shore, people think they are invincible. There are people who do a ton of drugs and think that they will just be able to quit when they want and they are not ones to become addicts. Many think they will never be caught yet, most of them do get caught. Drugs are dangerous and it truly feels like that is down played by teens. Once one gets addicted it is extremely hard to break it just as Nic is experiencing. 

Tweak #3

So far this book has been page after page about Nic doing drugs and getting involved with the wrong people. It is alot of the same thing over and over. He is injecting himself with horrible drugs and it is truly disgusting me. Nic is now trying to sell nasty drugs in order to make a lot of money with his friend. He is going to people who are fresh out of jail as his drug hookups. He said," It is my decision what to do with my life." This struck me because he knows he has control over his life but won't change his ways. He admitted that he has thrown his life away. At this point he feels he is incapable of change but knows he has serious problems. Now everyone has realized that he has relapsed so it became reality. It was out that he was no longer clean. The part that struck me in my reading today was his reflection on his past with his family, specifically his step mom. He described such a normal loving family and memories that he had. He talked about genuinely looking forward to time with his family friends and gently getting the little kids off of them as he'd play with them. He also recalled the first time him and his step mom hung out just them two. They spent quality time and got a long really well. This is not typically what you read in books the kids tend to not like their step moms. I thought that showed that he was an accepting and real nice kid. They would crack jokes all the time and he mentioned that he respects her so much. Then, when he was hallucinating from drugs he thought he saw her and was upset by the disappointment she had in him. Because he cares this shows that he has not completely crossed over and lost himself.

This reminded me of the death penalty debates. Many people argued that the things the person being prosecuted did were horrible but that does not make them horrible people. They argued that there is still a little kid inside these people who is innocent and a good person at heart. This is how I feel about Nic. He may do horrible things but I know that he still cares about his family and wishes he wasn't addicted to drugs. By the memories he describes he seems to have been a really good kid. I think it is so sad that he is on drugs and I hope to see a recovery as the book continues.

Extra Blog: Hurricane Katrina

In class we have been watching a movie about Hurricane Katrina. The video is interesting because the people speaking in the video end up talking about each other and their reactions to the storm. I thought it was good that they ordered a mandatory evacuation. I just didn't think it was okay that the government was not able to properly execute their order. They should have found a way to get those who could not afford to leave, were too sick, or too old out of there. Many died or became ill. People lost everything in this storm. I thought it was harsh of the police not to take any calls even though their was a warning that no one will help those who choose to stay. The fact was that no one wanted to stay and die people just could not leave for one reason or another and should not be punished for that reason.

It struck me how many fingers were pointed in this movie and the lack of unity showed in America. I thought Bush putting international affairs before ones at home in the US was a slap in the face to American cities. He made people feel he didn't care. It took him too long to send help and really get people recovered and to safety. It was embarrassing to me that Canadian troops were there and wanting to help before American troops. The citizens of New Orleans were made feel that this issue was minor compared to other issues in America due to the lack of help they were getting from the federal government. People were angry and upset because they were suffering and no one truly knew how bad it was. People were breaking into stores everywhere in order to get supplies for survival. Many citizens became violent and it became scary out there. About 80% of the city was covered in water. People lost their lives. People went days without water. People got separated from their families. 50,000 people were in a center at one point and had no where to change, no where to bathe, no food or supplies and the government claimed they didn't know that many people were there. The airport when people finally were starting to get out and sent to civilization, was packed with people wall to wall. The upstairs was full of sick people being recovered by doctors. There was no air in their because of the amount of people. People were miserable from their conditions and the heat as well as the unbearable humidity. One lady who spoke on the video said she was angry because one official in uniform had an attitude. All she wanted was a little compassion after all these citizens had been going through.  This made me sad. This was very different than the 911 video where Americans came together and unified. This showed a bad side of America which made me very sad.

Tweak Post #2

Underage drug use is common in the north shore. It's not very often you come across a teenager who has not experimented with anything that is not age appropriate or appropriate at all. It is sad how popular some drugs have become. People don't realize that is this is a very serious issue. Teens are at an age where it is very easy to get addicted to things and many are not mature enough to get the help necessary to overcome these problems. Many adults have trouble overcoming these problems and many children are to naive to stop them before they get too bad. Tweak shows Sheff's struggle with this problem. He cannot control his drug problem because he had become addicted to hard drugs. He even got into selling drugs. Doing and selling drugs becomes his way of life. It is his first priority. They turn him into a different person who cares about nothing other than getting high. He constantly talks about how he chases the feeling he got from the first time he was high. This scared me because I have learned from this book that the more often people do the drugs, the more drugs required in order to provide that same feeling. Sheff talks about how he went through many twelve step rehab programs in order to stop his drug use as a child, but he never truly committed to them because he knew he needed drugs to survive, they had become his way of life. This drug addiction probably cost so much money. He used all his money saved up on drugs. Also, any money his parents gave him went to drugs. Also, his parents spent thousands on rehab programs that Sheff was not whole- heartedly working at. This drug problem was not only affecting him, but his whole family. Not only did it strip them of a lot of money, but it was detrimental to their normal lives. At a very young age they were seeing their brother get arrested and throw away his life. Sheff was a horrible role model for his younger siblings.

Tweak post #1

The beginning of the book Tweak by Nic Sheff starts off bold and strong. The book is about Sheff himself. He starts out by saying he has his life together and can control his drug usage. Then, his drug problem gets so bad that he loses everything. At this time he is only a teenager and has become brutally addicted to drugs. He says, "It was like, I don't know, like everything else faded out. All my dreams, my hopes, ambitions, relationships- they all fell away as I took more crystal up my nose...my life unraveled" (Sheff 5).  This shows that addictions really take over people's lives. Addiction makes people lose control because they will do anything to make sure they get whatever they are addicted to. Sheff described that at first he was hiding the bad things he was doing so he would not be a negative influence over his siblings and the next thing he knew he was arrested in front of them, watching them sob as he was cuffed by the police.

This book has altered my opinion about drug testing. In class we discussed several situations and argued whether it was okay or not to drug test students. Unless it was an extreme case, I pretty much disagreed with drug testing students. In Sheff's case though it would only be safe to drug test him. He was clean for a while but as he said he just could not stop. After his rehab, I think he should have been constantly drug tested so his parents could make sure he would not relapse. This would deter him from doing more drugs and keep him in the right state of mind. Addiction is powerful and was taking over Sheff's life. I am not against random drug testing or drug testing in schools if that is the measures that must be taken in order to ensure other kids and people don't have this same problem. It is too serious.

Abortion

It seems the pro-life arguement is winning. People have come to value life to a more extreme in the past few years. I think this may have something to do with all the war and sensitivity toward life since September 11, 2001. I personally feel the pro-choice arguement is stronger in  general. I think no arguement can trump women's safety and right to choose what they do with their own bodies. No 60 year old man in Congress has the right to make decisions about what women do with their bodies. Pro-life believers have a point in saying that everyone should be informed of the consequences and everything that will happen during their surgery. They should be aware because in any surgery you should be aware of all that will happen and be educated on it. I think it is so wrong that some places are giving misleading information to prevent abortions.

I think no matter what women should have a right to choose what they do with their bodies. This does not necessarily mean I am pro-abortion, it just means that if the women feels it is the right thing to do to not have the baby then that is her choice. There are many cases where the baby was very much unexpected, unwanted, or will not be affordable with the income of the family. This pregnacy affects the whole family not just the girl. Therefore, parents should have to give consent if the kid is under 18. No matter what they should be made aware that their daughter is pregnant reguardless of age because it is morally right.

The mom for sure should be notified. Although the father is a man, I feel he should be notified, especially if he is paying for it. If the lady is not living with her father or not close with him, it should not be required. But I think that it is necessary.

Illinois's abortion laws do not do enough to protect the safety of women getting abortions enough. Also, it makes rules against certain people getting abortion counseling and rights. Illinois has some laws supporting both sides of abortion. I disagree with all the laws that prevent women from choosing or that try and convince them out of what they are doing. There are insurance issues too.Women should all have the right to choose. Abortions should be more accessable to women, many of the laws make it harder for women to go through with the process and less safe. I do agree with abortion being legal in Illinois. Also, they allow for emergency contraception. It is accessable to low income women. I think the laws need to be adjusted a little in order to reduce any guilt and forceful measures in this important and emotional decision.